How can I be receptive to abunance?
Question: I have been doing visualizations for abundance and prosperity for quite some time now. However,I am still stuck in a rut irrespective of the fact that I work hard,
and care deeply about others,and try to do my best in
everything that I do.
I would be pleased to know how to be receptive to abundance,or do I need spiritual life coaching to be able
to work on this issue? Thanking you for all your help and
Answer: This is such a good question and I am sure many people are searching for answers on this very subject. I have sat on this question for a few days so that I could give it my full attention and give you the best answers I can.
There are many steps you can take to get more receptive to abundance and abundance does not always have to be about money though it certainly includes money. It also includes your overall happiness, your friendships, romantic relationships and family connections.
Here are a few things you can look at that might be keeping you stuck.
- First ask yourself if you are making room in your life for abundance. What I mean is are you holding on to those old raggedy close you can no longer wear or are just plain out of date. If so get rid of them and make room for the new.
Have you made a place in your life for a romantic partner or do you still sleep in the middle of the bed? Have you made a space in the closet for someone else's belongings or are you hogging it all up.
Are you waiting to spend that extra ten dollars on something that makes you feel good about yourself until next payday? Try pampering yourself, this tells your subconscious mind I am Worth it.
- What are you saying about yourself and your situation? Are you nice to yourself? This isn't just about the words you say, but also in the way you treat yourself and allow others to treat you.
How often do you tell yourself somebody else is more deserving or that someone else is smarter? You say your good to others, but are you good to yourself. Putting others first is noble, but sometimes you need to do what is best for you. It is not bad to ask for what you want and believe you deserve it.
How often do you let others determine your self worth? This is important because we teach others how to treat us by the way we act and respond to the way they treat us. Be good to yourself and don't let others run you over.
- Identify some of your mental blocks: where are you getting stuck? Look at some of the relationships around you. Is there turmoil there? Ask yourself if being right is holding you back from having the kind of relationship you would like to have with this person. Sometimes letting go of control can be the most powerful thing in the world.
Let go of being right, let go of not looking good in front of people, let go of good and bad and just be. Feel the love and move forward.
We all have mental blocks that hold us back. The important thing is to pinpoint them and start to remove them. Because I don't know you personally I can only give you tips on things that I have struggled with myself. I hope this has helped you in some way.
One on one coaching is not a bad idea however that can be very time consuming and expensive over time. Ask yourself where you are at and where exactly you are getting stuck and then assess where you may need some help.
I had a lot of trouble with this exact thing and I had a hard time identifying some of the ways I was blocking myself. The best thing I ever did for myself was to participate in the Landmark forum. It is an intense 3 day course that helps to identify what is holding you back and what steps you can take right now to start removing those blocks. I'm telling you this class changed my life. I encourage you to check out there website. It might be just what your looking for. Here is the link to their site.Landmarkeducation.com
They hold classes all around the world so just check with the site to find out when the next class closest to you will be held.
If you have a specific question about something that is holding you back or if you can identify a block you need help removing I will be happy to answer those questions as well and maybe be of assistance with those questions as well.
If you decide that one on one coaching is what you need. Please do your research and find someone reputable. Ask around and be diligent in your search for a good coach. Don't settle for someone you found in the local yellow pages. Do your homework before choosing your coach.
All the best to you.