Tonights The Night
This months newsletter is all about having a “Tonight’s the Night Attitude.” What do I mean by this? I mean let’s stop putting things off till tomorrow and make tonight the night you start living your dreams and fulfilling your destiny. My challenge to you is that you decide that this moment will be the first moment of the rest of your life.
This Months Quotables:
Some people want it to happen, some wish it would happen, others make it happen.
Don't make excuses. Make things happen. Make changes. Then make history.
~Doug Hall quotes
Some men see things the way they are and ask, "Why?" I dream things that never were, and ask "Why not?"
~ George Bernard Shaw
Some make it happen, some watch it happen, and some say, "What happened?"
I am an Unstoppable, Consistently Positive, Endlessly Persistent, Doer of Dreams.
This Months Positive Websites
Every month we nominate 3 to 5 websites that we think spread positivity in some way and we share them with you. Then we ask you to vote for your favorite. The website with the most votes will remain forever in our positive websites and resources section of the positive thinking-toolbox website. Here are this months nominees.
:This is a blog all about possibilities. The author, Henrik Edberg, rights about improving your social life, health, happiness, productivity and general awesomeness. The articles you will find on this blog are a pure delight
: This site is all about sharing positivity. Read the positivity of others and share your positivity with them. I think this is a great sentiment. As we share our own positivity deepens.
: Find the purpose of your life. This site helps you to live a more productive, happy, enthusiasm filled life. With products and articles to help you succeed in all that you do.
http://www.creativeaffirmations.com :Everything you ever wanted to know about affirmations is right here all in one place. They even feature a newsletter that gives you free affirmation cards when you sign up.
http://www.magneticvisionboards.com :This site was created to spread the power of affirmations through a little device called a magnetic vision board. Using affirmations and brilliantly colored photographs.
To vote for your favorite visit the positive websites section of the positive thinking-toolbox.com by clicking on
Last Months Winner
If you haven’t checked this site out yet be sure you do and when you do, be sure to e-mail them and let them know you heard about them from the positive thinking-toolbox.com website and congratulate them on the title of most positive website of the month.
This is were we get to the grit. Most of the time you will find articles here from other authors as I like to share the knowledge of others that have touched me in some way because you get what I have to say on the website. Sometimes however, I have a burning desire to write something just for my newsletter subscribers. Either way this is where you will find the best positive articles.
This Months Positive Article
Tonights The Night
During a conference about life and longevity, the speaker said to the crowd, that those who have sex more than 4 or 5 times a week live longer more healthy lives. The crowd you could tell was uneasy and was not buying this. The speaker then decides to bring his point home, so he asks the crowed to raise there hands if they have sex less than twice a week and the hands went up slowly one by one. Then he asked the crowd to raise their hands if they had sex more than 4 times a week and hands went up almost instantly with some people almost jumping out of their seats.
At this time, the speaker, thinking he had made his point, started to move on to the next subject when a man in his 90’s stood waving his hands and jumping up and yelling, “what about me.” The speaker said, ok, sure how often do you have sex? The man said, with great enthusiasm, “once a year, but tonight, is the night.”
So I ask you what is it in your world that would make you get up out of your seat and scream if tonight was the night? How many of your dreams have you put off until tomorrow? How many missed moments have you endured because you thought, this just isn’t the right time?
I challenge you to take on a tonight’s the night attitude. To make tonight the night that you make things happen. You are not in this alone. I have recently taken on this very challenge. Over the last three months I have gradually started recognizing those things I need to make a tonight’s the night priority.
In this challenge, I had a conversation with my brother I thought would never occur, I had long ago come to the conclusion that we just didn’t like each other much. When I looked deeper though I realized that I missed having my big brother in my life. So I told him just that. I don’t think I like you but, you are my big brother and I miss having you in my life. That was nearly three months ago. We talk 2 or 3 times a week now and guess what, I like him, I like him a lot. This didn’t happen right away because the conversation stunned us both a bit, but we got the chance to be honest with each other and in that, we found common ground to start from.
Since then I have written a letter to my step father that I haven’t talked to in nearly 10 years, I proposed a new job position with the company I am currently employed with, I got refocused on my two website that I love, I told the love of my life that I have been in love with her since the first time I saw her, a little over eleven years ago ( by the way she told me she had always felt this way as well), and I started taking more risks and speaking the truth about how I was feeling.
What are your dreams? Who do you wish you could talk to? What is that one thing that you wish will happen “someday”?. Take the challenge. Make tonight the night.
My whole world has changed since I decided that I would no longer put off for tomorrow, The dreams I have always seen as a someday possibility. Someday never comes. Tonight is the night. Make it happen.
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