Most Important Lesson I have Ever Learned

There are many teachings on affirmations and the power of positive words. There are also many people who try frantically to use affirmations and see no results or very slow results. Why is this? Simply put, they may be speaking there words, but are they keeping there word? If your struggling in a particular area, this months newsletter is a must read. Find out the most important lesson I have ever learned.

This Months Quotables:

Promises are like the full moon, if they are not kept at once they diminish day by day. ~German Proverb

Promise only what you can deliver. Then deliver more than you promise. ~Author Unknown

How can a young man keep his way pure? By keeping it according to Your word." ~Psalm 119:9

You can create the energy to turn your dreams into reality by knowing what to say when you talk to yourself. ~Shad Helmstetter

Quite simply, what you say is the single biggest factor that determines your happiness. ~Irwin Katsof

This Months Positive Websites

Every month we nominate 3 to 5 websites that we think spread positivity in some way and we share them with you. Then we ask you to vote for your favorite. The website with the most votes will remain forever in our positive websites and resources section of the positive thinking-toolbox website. To see this months nominees and to vote for your favorite, please visit

Positive Websites

Last Months Winner

If you haven’t checked this site out yet, be sure you do, it is full of good stuff. you can watch an interview with the author Suzie Cheel on the positivethinking-toolbox website by clicking on Suzies Interviw

This Months Positive Article

This is were we get to the grit. Most of the time you will find articles here from other authors as I like to share the knowledge of others that have touched me in some way because you get what I have to say on the website. Sometimes however, I have a burning desire to write something just for my newsletter subscribers. Either way this is where you will find the best positive articles.

Most Important Lesson I Have Learned

If someone had told me I was not reaping all that I longed for because I was not keeping my word, I would have been insulted and very defensive. I was challenged recently to keep my word and every promise I made. Seems simple right? Wrong.

What I found when I looked very deeply, I told people all the time that I would call them later and would get to busy and think no big deal. IT IS A BIG DEAL. I would say I’ll be there at 5 and get there at 5:05 not realizing that it mattered, I mean it’s only 5 minutes right? Wrong. IT MATTERS. I would tell myself I would write 5 articles this week and only did 4 because I was tired one night. 4 is almost 5. Its good enough right? Wrong. Almost is not good enough.

What I discovered is that when I started paying attention to what I was telling myself what I was going to do and telling others what I would do, I was in essence giving my word and when I did not follow through I was breaking my word. Since I started keeping every promise I made, no matter how small, things started happing.

I have a good life, the law of attraction has worked miracles, positive thinking and gratitude have done amazing things for my life. NOTHING, however has been as astounding to me as what has happened since I started paying very close attention to my word. Just to give you an example. My business income has doubled since I took on this challenge, my relationships with my friends and family have become better than I have ever known them, I have more free time, and I have manifested meetings with some very prominent people.

What I learned in this challenge. The subconscious mind works wonders and it listens to the words you speak. This is why affirmations are such a powerful tool. What most people do not realize is that your subconscious sees the way you honor your word and if you can not keep the simplest of promises like returning a phone call then it assumes you may not keep the promises that you make to yourself as well so it takes a lot longer for the affirmations to work because you are fighting against what your subconscious knows to be true and that is that you DO NOT MEAN everything you say, because if you did you would keep even the smallest of promises.

My challenge to you this month is to honor your word. Notice the little things you are not following through on that you promised you would. Keep your promises to yourself and to others.

I hope you enjoyed this months newsletter. If you have a specific question about positive thinking be sure to ask your question at ask a question, get an answer and I will be happy to share whatever knowledge I have on the topic. Thank you and I wish for you a month full of laughter.

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